What is it that we look for in life? It
seems to me that we are all woven together into
one big piece, all tied into each other with our
longings for acceptance, love, respect…from each
other. Sitting here in this moment,
writing, it is clear to me that we all aspire
for a beautiful life, though we all have a
different image of what that means.
I loved someone for the last three years.
In that amount of time it was almost like a life
time composed of moments similar to heaven and
to hell. I gave him a piece of my heart.
He was my first love, the only romantic love I
have ever known. Coming from a past of
low-self-esteem and unsure any man would desire
me it brought me a strength of realizing I did
in fact possess something good.
Though our relationship, romantically speaking,
perhaps really ended long ago, he was the first
to move on and find his soul mate. Here I
sit now with a choice in my hands. Yes, my
heart it grieving, yes I still long for him and
somehow wish I could have been his one love, but
it’s okay. I will be okay. The pain
I feel now, no matter how overwhelming it is, it
will sub-side. Down the road I will find
as I move on from him, that there is a better
fit for me, and I will find him.
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But how does one cope in the mean-time, as their
heart breaks un-endingly inside of them?
The tears I have shed are innumerable, and when
I picture him longing for her I almost vomit.
But why is this?
To any of my readers out there who may be going
through a break-up or heart-ache of any kind, I
bring you hope today and some comfort. For
the next few minutes, follow these words let
them sink deep inside of you as I am letting
them do now.
Please realize that really there is nothing
lost, only something gained. I promise the
heart-ache will sub-side, but know in your heart
you can now be even more incredible than ever
before…because of this painful moment in
time…you are now going to be incredible.
You are a human being, no matter your
circumstance, position and despite anything you
may have experienced or done, you possess a
great great power…the power to change yourself,
and the power to realize you possess everything
you will ever need…right now, to thrive, be
loved and love.
If you have been through a painful place and you
experienced feeling left in the dirt as they
moved on, you are not in the dirt. You are
on a mountain top actually. Realize that
you can take all you have learned and stand
tall, for you are now even wiser than before,
and you now have a tremendous view of what you
want and all you can be.
important to realize that it’s you who hold the
key to your life. Take the experience for
what it is and rejoice that you experienced a
moment of being loved, even if it was only for a
short while. As your heart heals, realize
that life will only get brighter.